no one is perfect! But some people make others feel bad or act disrespectfully. If you’ve heard the following sentences, it’s time to change your behavior.
This is how you recognize bad people
None of us are perfect and that’s a good thing. After all, our “mistakes” make us the person we are, and as we all know, we can learn from mistakes. Life isn’t always about doing everything right, it’s about acting on your knowledge and faith while keeping others in mind. However, if you are intentionally giving others a bad feeling and acting solely for your own benefit, the whole thing will look different again. However, intentionality does not mean that such behaviors or decisions are always made consciously. Lack of caution can also result in injury or disappointment to others. Other toxic behaviors include lack of empathy, manipulation, aggression, and lack of morals.
But does that make you a bad person? Who actually decides what is good and what is bad?
Having a bad day or doing something that other people don’t like doesn’t make anyone a bad person. There are also different interpretations of what bad or evil actually means. However, if the people around you regularly feel unsettled, uncomfortable, or even hurt in your presence, it’s time to change something. The same also applies to the environment and animals! Treat others the way you want to be treated, and base your actions on gratitude and appreciation.
Take the test: Are you a bad person?
How do you tell if you’re a bad person? If you have heard the following statements or something similar regarding yourself, only a great deal of self-work will help you. Reflect on your behavior, find the reasons why you behave this way and change them.
1. “I don’t trust you”
If someone has said that to you before, especially if it’s someone close to you, it’s not a good sign. This may be because you do not listen to others, show understanding or tell others everything. This is not a good personality trait and will make others close down to you. Trust is not just about sharing fears, longings and secrets, it is also about creating a real bond between people. Trust is the foundation of everything.
2. “You make me feel like I don’t matter to you.”
Yes, you should put yourself first – to some extent. It’s about self-love and finding and living your own happiness, but please don’t become selfish right away! Caring for others and not putting yourself above everything else is important for your friendships, family, and romantic relationships. Even at work, constantly extending your elbows doesn’t help anyone. There is a happy medium to how you can achieve justice for yourself and others and you should always stop thinking about yourself.
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3. “You’ll never be there when I need you.”
Supporting each other and being there for each other through the small and big challenges in life is essential to a good relationship with each other. After all, you expect the same from others. Realize that life is about give and take and be there for others.
4. “You are upset”
Are you controlled by envy and jealousy and do you not envy others anything? Ask yourself why this is. We know it’s not always easy – especially when things aren’t going well for you. But your personal happiness should not depend on the happiness of others. When you learn to be happy for others, it can impact you and make you feel good. Why don’t others deserve to get what you want for yourself?
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5. “I don’t feel appreciated by you.”
Do you take everything and everyone for granted and do not appreciate anything in your life? For example, being surrounded by people who mean well for you or have a great job is nice, but not something to take for granted. Be grateful for the positive things and people in your life and show them your appreciation. This is the least you can do.
6. “You lie to me all the time.”
This alone may not necessarily make you a bad person overall, but it is extremely unfair behavior and a bad character trait. No one likes to be lied to, and when the other person notices that you are being dishonest, it not only leads to a lack of trust, but also great disappointment.
7. “You are a narcissist.”
Just because someone makes this claim doesn’t mean it’s true. Narcissism is a personality trait that must be diagnosed by experts, psychologists, or therapists. But if someone accuses you of being a narcissist or having narcissistic traits, you can assume that you have hurt that person. Or he or she notices that you treat others poorly.
These may be signs of narcissism.
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